When you are trying to make someone love you, the one most important thing you need is to be fully acquainted with yourself. Keep this in mind… people are going to fall in love with you only if you have a personality that impresses them; only if they know that they will get what they want from you. But, if you have to assure people of that, it is necessary that you build for yourself such a personality. So, how do you make those improvements? You begin by understanding completely where you stand at the moment.
Be completely sure of what you are… what you are capable of. Understand what it is that people are looking for. Understand what’s lacking in you. What are the positive points you can play on? What are the negative traits you should try to eliminate? If you want to continue having a magnetic personality that attracts people, you should begin by analyzing yourself and making those corrections when needed.
If you love someone, it means you accept them as they are, with their faults and weaknesses. You make their joys and sorrows their own. You are happy in their happiness; you are distressed when they are distressed. And it works the other way round too. When someone falls in love with you, it means they should accept you the way you are. They should not try to change anything about you, because that is very unlikely to happen. The first thing you need to get started is to know what love is. It is only when you understand the true meaning of love will you acknowledge it when someone falls in love with you.
So, you see someone you find interesting. They look great and you would really want to hang out with them. But, do you want them to fall in love with you? Or the other way round? Maybe not yet. It is advisable to first find out about the other person and see whether you really want to hook up with them. Remember that it is love we are talking about here, not infatuation.
Once you have thoroughly decided that you want this person to fall in love with you, you can make your move. How do you approach them? Here are some tips.
The first thing you would need is confidence. Do not be shaky or jittery; that would only show you in a bad light. You are a person, they are a person as well. Maybe they have similar thoughts in their mind too. Keep this in mind. Do not be cowed down by the fear of failure. Keep your spirits high and sally on.
Do not be worried of the result. Do not think too far into the future. Maybe just a casual date is good for the moment. Do not
expect more than that. That way, whatever happens, you will not be affected too much.
Be casual. Do not put on an act. Most importantly, do not rehearse. Just think for a moment what you will say and then go on. If you think too much, things may belie your expectations.
Be sincere when you approach them. Look at them in the eye, but do not leer. Have a smile on your face. Look cool but not imposing. Do not put on a face that shows you are bored of all these things! At the same time, do not appear overeager like a schoolboy. Be your normal self.
Do not let a previous rejection faze you. If you have tried the approach with someone else before and it has not worked, there is no reason why it should not work this time as well. Every person is different. It is not necessary to change your approach. What did not work for someone may work this time. These are some things that you have to keep in mind. Most importantly, do not hesitate. Make the move. Whatever happens, you should not let the result affect you too much.
To wind it all up, here are the things that you should need if you want to make people fall in love with you:
Know About Yourself The first person you need to get to know better is yourself. What is it within you that you can tone down or improve? Can you pinpoint where you need to make these adjustments? What aspects of you are already cool, and you can make them better? Analyze your personality. Try bettering what you have.
Improve Your Mindset It is very important to have the right thought process. Be clear in the way you think, and be optimistic. Never let your thoughts or other people’s impression about you bog you down. Keep up the confidence and move on progressively.
Improve Your Equation with People You also need to improve your relationships in society. Come out of that shell. Do not be introverted; come out and interact with people. It is only when you meet people will you find someone you like. Also, if you want people to be interested in you, it is important to be visible to them.
Work Out Your Body Contrary to what anyone says, your physical appearance matters. Improve your physique. You have to look appealing and attractive, if not the most handsome or beautiful person in the world.
Develop Your Personality You have to be a suave, confident person if you want to impress people with your personality. You have to have the right knowledge about things. You h