Blaming others for one’s failures is one of the most toxic mindsets people get trapped in, yet it is one that most people find
comfortable because it projects
responsibility for one’s negligence onto others. It makes people into victims,
and victimsdeserve sympathy.
But the truth is that, even when others
sabotage you, it is your responsibility to fix the situation they got you in. Otherwise, you will be ceding control over your life to others!
Believing that change is not
possible is really just an excuse to avoid making an effort to improve your life. After all, misery is
comfortable, while happiness
requires real effort on your part.
Thinking that your failures define you is a toxic mindset that comes from frustration over failing
repeatedly. But believe it or not, every failure is an opportunity to learn until you don’t fail anymore!
Thinking that you are perfect the way you are is another damaging belief because it blinds you to the fact that you can always do things better, that you can be a better version of yourself with each